She’s this ball of crazy that’s swooped in and knocked you off your feet with her outrageous honesty and openness when it comes to all her flaws.

But she’s not who you’d want to be with forever, so it’s probably best to stop wasting your own time.

Trust me when I say, she’s not what you want. Or need.

You think you want her because she’s easy to get along with and you find her beautiful, but she’s only giving you just enough so that you don’t walk away from her before she gets bored of you.

She’s calculate and evasive, but yet you’re still drawn in and you don’t even know why. But it’s the same reason all the others get drawn in too, you want to get her to care.

If you manage to get her to care, you’ve achieved something that very few people have. Her walls are built up so high that no one can get in and the time and effort you’ll spend trying to understand her, might not even seem worth it once you’ve got her sussed out.

Her crazy ass mood swings and waves of pulling you in and pushing you away aren’t even deterring you, but she isn’t the kind of girl you want to introduce to your parents or plan a life with. So while you can go with the motion for now, you won’t want to play chase forever.

She’s the kind of girl you briefly get obsessed with and time thinking about, wondering what will make her fall for you. But only briefly. Until your forever girl appears and brings with her calm and serenity you lacteally want and need. The kind of vibes you want your future wife to have.

But this one, the one you’re falling for right now, she isn’t what you want forever. Trust me.

She’s been broken by other people too many times to be able to give you all of her, so many bits have been lost along the way to different love stories, that now all she has to offer are pieces. And this is why she’s not what you want. What are you supposed to do with broken pieces?

She wants you to be obsessed with her because she loves to get away with as much as she can, she likes to push someone’s buttons to see how far she can take them before they leave her. She enjoys testing people’s limits.

And why would you want to put up with someone doing that over and over again? She’s a game player and with some practice she’s learnt to never lose.

So please, save yourself some wasted energy and just trust me when I say she isn’t what you want.