Forcing something with someone who isn’t right for you ultimately results in two people feeling like shit and neither of them knowing why.
If two people don’t fit, it doesn’t necessarily mean it’s either persons fault. It’s just life. Sometimes things aren’t supposed to work out someone because the one you’re supposed to be with, isn’t in your life yet.
But trying to stay with someone when both of you spend most of your time miserable is just delaying the inevitable.
When it’s not working with someone and you’ve tired your hardest, it’s time to walk away.
Giving up isn’t weak, what’s weak is staying with someone because you’re too scared to leave.
Neither of you wants to hurt but yet you’re both hurting each other. So how is promising someone you’ll change when you know you’ve done nothing wrong beneficial to either of you? All it will result in is one person hating the other.
Let’s be honest, feeling like shit is shit, life’s too short to sit around being miserable and feeling anything less than crazy passionate love for the person you’re shagging.
And while one person might make you feel mediocre and not enough, someone out there wants to make you feel like you’re the best thing that’s ever happened to them. You’re with the wrong person, it’s time to accept that and move on.
People are either a lesson or a blessing in our lives and hopefully this lesson has taught you how to spot red flags as well as helping you figure out a number of things you don’t want in someone.
Cut your losses, walk away from crazy, because when crazy isn’t fun it’s scary and unsafe.
You want someone who drives you crazy for them, not someone who is stab you in your sleep kind of crazy.
A series of bad relationships wont help you feel like a better person because you’ve been there for a string of people who’ve felt down and out about their own lives.
Maybe try being with someone who’s driven and who has their shit together, don’t go for people who offer any less than you do. If you’re giving them love and stability then don’t accept less in return.
Forcing yourself to be happy with someone who isn’t happy with either themselves or who you are as a person, is a disaster waiting to happen. Stop being scared to go after what’s best for you.